Build A Relationship That Is Extraordinary!

For dating, engaged & married couples.

Working on Your Relationship Doesn’t Have to Feel Like Work

Work on the Connection, Not the Problems

We create fun and helpful tools for dating, engaged and married couples. Our resources set couples up to win by showing them how to do a few key things really well. Our philosophy is simple: Don’t work on your problems, work on your togetherness.

"The Foster's have taught us a great deal about love and hope and friendship. You'll learn a lot too."


We Failed! But We Learned!

Confession Time...

Our worst fight ever happened at a marriage retreat. Every marriage book we tried to read together we never finished. We’re kinda flunkies when it comes to all the things that you’re supposed to do to be a happy couple.

And yet, 24 years of marriage later, we’re thriving and more in love than ever. The secret? Make it fun. Keep it real. Do a few things really well. And don’t work on your problems, work on your togetherness!

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Our Products

We create fun and helpful tools for couples. Married couples. Engaged couples. Couples who are just starting out or who have been together for decades. No matter where you're at in your relationship, take your next step towards togetherness, today.

Five Dates Workbooks

With an extra 10-minutes, "Five Dates" will equip you with the tools to build connection and togetherness. The His/Her workbooks are filled with simple exercises, short readings and fun talking points.

Guided Video Series

The "Extraordinary Couples" guided video series is a fun and easy way to improve communication, create intimacy and build a more satisfying relationship right now! Fast paced, practical and fun.

Playbook Bundle

The Playbook Bundle includes a 132-page activity guide to build creative moments with your partner. Also, includes our Tiny Talk playing cards to spur on fun and connecting conversations.

Ultimate Bundle

The Ultimate Five Dates Bundle is a collection of all of our resources to help you connect in a positive way with your partner. Includes the Five Dates workbooks, Playbook and Tiny Talk cards.

How it Works

Fun & Fast Paced

Life is kinda crazy sometimes. You need something built for your busy schedules.

Facts, Not Opinions

Facts, not fluff. We get right to the point. We hit the big topics that really matter.

Real Results!

You’ll see the results immediately. The takeaways are fun and practical.

"Five Dates is fun, insightful and immeasurably practical - a rare combination."



This year Mike and Jennifer will help thousands of couples discover how to communicate, connect and build fun into their relationships. With simple tools and practical wisdom, their down-to-earth style is helping couples build togetherness.

Tighten The Knot Conference

If you want to tie the knot or tighten the knot, this one-day conference is for you! March 7, 2020 at Newspring Church in Anderson, SC with Mike & Jennifer Foster, Jefferson Bethke, Tim Ross and Shaunti Feldhahn.

Strongest Us MarriageRetreat

Join the Foster’s April 3-5, 2020 for a weekend of learning how to take your marriage from good to great. Hosted at the Winshape Retreat Center in Atlanta, GA.

Meet The Fosters

Mike Foster

Mike is an author, counselor and host of the wildly popular Fun Therapy podcast. He has appeared on FoxNews, Good Morning America and in the NY Times.

Jennifer Foster

Jennifer is a Registered nurse and mom to 2 teenagers. She is the co-author of the best selling book for couples called “Five Dates.”

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)

Most relationship products are designed to get you to do something you really don’t want to do. It’s not that you don’t desire to improve your relationship. You do. The problem is that they’ve made it too difficult to succeed. Often, it’s too philosophical, too inspirational or just too out of touch. After talking to thousands of couples we understand that if we can’t get you to do a few simple things, we will never get you to do a lot of hard things. Common sense right? So we made our products, fun and lifestyle friendly. We made it easy to win. But make no mistake, just because it’s simple, doesn’t mean that it won’t produce powerful results.
The Fosters are the authors of the best-selling relationship fun-book called, “Five Dates.” They’ve been married for 23 years. Mike is an author, counselor and host of the wildly popular Fun Therapy podcast. His work has been featured in the NY Times and on Good Morning America. Jennifer is a Registered Nurse in San Diego and is involved in international medical mission trips.
Nope. You can only purchase the products through us or at our events. We have great customer service and have a great team working hard to deliver an exceptional shipping experience.
No. They cover a few of the same themes but in the guided video course we dig into a lot more things. They are complimentary products but totally different content.
Yes. Couples love using our products in groups. We have had a host couple gather up other couples for a monthly dinner date and used the “Five Dates” workbooks as the resource that the couples go through. We’ve had churches use the materials for marriage enrichment classes and small groups use it as a 5-week study. Feel free to use it in any way that makes sense for your setting. Our goal is for couples to engage in the content and experience growth in their relationship.
14 HD videos. 14 Action Guides. MP3 audio downloads of each session. Certificate of Completion. Over 1.5 hours of guided instruction plus our bonus date ideas snack pack. I don’t think we could have stuffed any more things inside! :)
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Nope! Do it whenever you want and at your own pace. Watch one session a week or binge watch them all at once. You will have lifetime access to the content.
Yes sir! You will instantly receive access to all the lessons, downloads and materials.
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